Monday, October 25, 2010

We're NOT invincible.

Why is it that everyone, (including my dumb-ass self), thinks that they are invincible?  There is something about our generation of youth that seriously lacks consideration and caution.  Sometimes, this lack of caution results in something fatal. Sometimes, it only takes one weekend to open the eyes of many.

 I was in a car accident Friday night, I was by myself and unharmed (other than a few little scratches and bruises), but more or less just extremely lucky that no one saw, and I arrived home safe.  I completely blame myself for making the most irresponsible decision in driving home that night, but I am thankful that I am fine.

People say that bad things always happen in 3's though, right?  Saturday night, a friend of mine that I went to elementary school through high school with was in a fatal car accident.  He was unfortunately not as lucky as I was, and he was pronounced dead at the scene.  His passenger is in the hospital with minor injuries, but Richie Dykas, only 24 years old, sadly didn't make it.

This accident definitely opened the eyes of many Dedham residents.  He was a great kid.  Smart, athletic, sweet, funny-- everything a mother would want in a son.  The Police have not said that alcohol was involved yet, as they are waiting on test results.  But based on details of the accident, I am sure that alcohol was a factor unfortunately.

While our town mourns the loss of Richie, I hope that everyone considers the decisions they may have made that could have have had consequences similar to this.  I know I am.  I am really lucky to be okay, but really sad that Richie was not as lucky.  All I'm saying is PLease think twice before getting behind the wheel.  A $60 dollar cab fare is well worth your safety/life.  Driving drunk is not worth it.

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